Notes from the Field
Children of Incarcerated Parents
For two years, Family Service Association of Monroe County addressed the issues facing incarcerated parents and their
children. When a parent was incarcerated, their kids faced the trauma of
sudden separation and they often experienced fear, anxiety, anger,
sadness, depression, and guilt. The behavioral consequences for these
kids could be severe: emotional disturbance, failure in school,
delinquency, and the risk of intergenerational incarceration.
Strengthening Parents &
Families Now for a Successful Future
Parenting and life skills education, contact visits with their
children, and support services to families constituted Family Service
Association’s Families in Transition (FIT) program. FIT viewed the
family as an important resource for change. A collaborative effort of
Family Service Association of Monroe County, Indiana University, and
the Monroe County Correctional Center, FIT was funded by the Indiana Children’s Trust Fund.
It is one of many programs across the country that was developed in
response to research demonstrating a positive relationship between
parole success and the maintenance of strong family ties while
incarcerated.
Ninety inmates and their children and families participated in
the program since its inception. Seeking to go beyond
what was offered in most parenting programs, FIT chose H. Stephen
Glenn’s “Developing Capable People™” (DCP) program as the central
curriculum. The important components of typical parenting programs
(i.e. time-outs, toilet training, developmental stages, etc.) were
included. However, DCP allows Families in Transition to expand on those
components through the development of positive self-perceptions and
life skills. DCP teaches inmates to foster in their children assets
that strengthen important human qualities such as resiliency and
self-sufficiency.
An unexpected but welcome outcome of the program was the inmate’s
own awareness of the importance of nurturing these assets in not only
their children, but in themselves as well. As inmates develop more
healthy self-perceptions and effective life skills, they increase their
chances of future success for themselves, their children, their
families, and their communities.
No Glass Barriers – Family Contact Visits
Family contact visits were the centerpiece of the FIT program.
Children were given an opportunity to have contact with their parents
that was more natural and nurturing than visits behind glass. Kids could
feel the emotional and physical warmth of their parents’ presence, if
only for a short time every two weeks. They allowed a child to sit on
their daddy’s lap and draw or to get tickled and hugged by their mom.
The visits also gave inmates an opportunity to apply the DCP concepts
they were learning in the program.
Families reported that the contact visits were a favorite outing for
their children. The excited and happy cohort of babies, toddlers, and
older children seen in the lobby of the jail every other Thursday and
Sunday spoke to the importance of these contact visits, even under
trying circumstances. The inmates reported more bonding with their
families and renewed confidence that they can succeed as parents and
partners.
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